5 Best Toys for Long Distance Relationships

Whether you're navigating a long-distance relationship or just exploring new ways to connect, app-enabled sex toys let a partner take the wheel from anywhere in the world in real time. But not all of them are created equal. We've found that some are clunky to set up, lose connection mid-moment, or just don't work that well. As always, everything you find at Bonjibon has been carefully curated to be the best out there. Here are our favourite long-distance play picks: toys that are intuitive to use, genuinely pleasurable, body-safe, and worth every penny. Because you deserve good sex, even from afar!

1. Spinel Thrusting, Vibrating + Heating Dildo Machine

Meet the Lovense Spinel, your all-in-one pleasure device designed to keep things exciting and completely satisfying. With its modular system, you can switch between clitoral stimulation, G-spot targeting, or classic dildo shapes, whatever you're in the mood for!

It’s super flexible, too. You can use the ergonomic handle or the extension for an easier grip, and there’s even a strong suction cup stand that sticks to most flat surfaces, giving you hands-free fun with adjustable angles.

The Spinel doesn’t stop there. It packs advanced features like dynamic thrusting (up to 1,350 thrusts per minute!), a heating function for lifelike warmth, and a vibrating shaft with a clitoral ring to hit all the right spots. Plus, it’s app-compatible, so you can create custom patterns or enjoy long-distance play with a partner.

With endless options and top-tier features, every session with the Lovense Spinel is built to be unique and amazing.

• Thrusting, Vibrating and Heating
• Unlimited customized speeds and patterns
• Multiple Attachments
  
• Hands-Free Mount
• Ultra High Speed Motions
• Up to 150° Angle Adjustment
• Compact & Lightweight
• App-enabled
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Waterproof
• USB Rechargeable

Please note: No physical remote comes with this toy. The only remote available is via the official app. 

2. We-Vibe Moxie+

A sleek and discreet wearable panty/underwear Bluetooth-enabled vibrator for secret and long-distant rendezvous. The Satisfyer Sexy Secret Panty Vibrator features a smooth body that is designed to rest against your most sensitive areas and a magnetic clip to fasten it in place. This toy is also great to attach under neither sheets to grind against.

• 5 Levels of Intensity
• Unlimited Vibrating Patterns
• Satisfyer App-Enabled
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• USB Rechargeable
• Waterproof
• Easy to clean
• 15-year warranty

3. Gush 2 Hands-Free Penis Massager

Gush 2 is a sleek, versatile, and powerful penis massager designed to take your pleasure to the next level. Whether you're indulging in solo play, edging, stamina training, or spicing things up with a partner, Gush 2 delivers targeted sensations for an unforgettable experience. 

Designed to bring comfort and versatility to the table with its body-safe, soft, and flexible materials, the adjustable wings provide a snug and personalized fit, so it works seamlessly for all sizes. Its waterproof build (IPX7) means you can take it into the shower without worry, and cleaning is straightforward and hassle-free, making it easy to maintain.

What makes Gush 2 stand out is its hands-free functionality, backed by an adjustable band that keeps it secure. With unlimited vibration patterns available through the Lovense app, you have the freedom to explore and customize to your heart’s content. It even syncs with interactive content for an extra layer of enjoyment, whether for solo use or long-distance connection with a partner.

On top of all that, Gush 2 is USB rechargeable, so you won’t be tied down by batteries, and it comes with a one-year warranty for added peace of mind. It’s not just about the technology—it’s about enhancing your experience with comfort, convenience, and features that adapt to your needs.

• Vibrating & Oscillating
• Unlimited customized speeds and patterns
• Customizable Patterns & Power
• Adjustable Air Vent for Suction
• Lovense App-Enabled
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Not Waterproof
  
• USB Rechargeable
• Whisper Quiet

4. We-Vibe Wand 2

The We-Vibe Wand 2 is the ultimate cordless massager, designed to deliver deep, rumbly vibrations for powerful, all-over pleasure. With its flexible head and ergonomic handle, it offers precise, satisfying sensations exactly where you want them, every time.

Say goodbye to the hassle of cords and enjoy the freedom of wireless play anytime, anywhere. Its long-lasting battery ensures hours of uninterrupted enjoyment, letting you indulge without limits.

Featuring a versatile stimulation head with curved edges, the Wand 2 adapts to all erogenous zones, offering a dynamic and exciting experience tailored to your desires.

A clever touch-sensing feature ensures vibrations only activate on contact with skin, preserving battery life and minimizing noise for discreet play. Prefer a continuous buzz? Simply switch off the sensor for uninterrupted vibrations.

With 76% of users reporting stronger stimulation compared to other wand vibrators, the We-Vibe Wand 2 truly sets a new standard for pleasure, power, and versatility.

• 10+ Intensity Levels
  
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• USB Rechargeable
• Whisper Quiet
• Waterproof
• Ultra-Lightweight
• We-Vibe App-Enabled
  

5. Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 Air Pulse Simulator - Connect App

Your favourite air pulse toy, now app-enabled for long distance play.

Experience the usual entrancing clitoral stimulation with the new Pro 2 Generation 3 through the contact-free pressure waves of the proven Air Pulse Technology. Unlike its predecessor, the latest generation is also equipped with 2 motors. For you, that means: 11 pressure wave and 12 vibration programs to choose from. But that’s not even close to everything!

Clitoral stimulation redefined. The breathtaking revolution is the Liquid Air Technology: The additional attachment with a wafer-thin silicone membrane creates intense waves that imitate the sensual gush of pulsating water. The Pro 2 Generation 3 floods your body with waves of pleasure, which create particularly natural and intense orgasms like you have never experienced before - clitoral stimulation on a completely new level.

Thanks to the Satisfyer Connect app, you’ll enjoy even more variety in your solo sessions: create your own rhythms with the vibration designer, connect your Spotify account and come to the beat of your favorite song, or let your partner control your Satisfyer from anywhere in the world. The app is available for free for iOS and Android.

• 11 Pressure Wave Intensities
• 12 Vibration Programs
• Liquid Air Technology
• USB Rechargeable
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone Body
• Waterproof
• USB Rechargeable
• App-Enabled
• 15 Year warranty

No matter the distance, staying connected intimately is absolutely possible, and honestly, really fun. App-enabled toys have made long-distance play feel less like a workaround and more like its own kind of experience. Whether you're shopping for yourself, your partner, or both of you at once, any of these picks will do the job well. As always, if you have questions about what might work best for your situation, we're here to help.