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7 Sex Toys For Total Newbies

7 Sex Toys For Total Newbies

So you want to buy a sex toy. Good for you! But oh no, you’ve never bought one before and don’t even know where to begin. That’s totally fair. There are a million options out there and it’s difficult to know where to even begin most of the time. You can officially stop going down the internet rabbit hole because here is your official guide for the best first-time toys for first-time buyers.

bonjibon - zee by dameZee by Dame

There is a reason the bullet vibe is a classic. Small but mighty, bullet vibes are great for first-time vibrator purchasers because they are discreet, basic in design and can be used for the most simple or complex sensations. Rest this lil’ gem on your clit for a right-to-the-point orgasm, tickle it all of your own or your partner’s body or get creative and use this toy with a cock ring! We especially love the bullet from Dame because it’s USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof and has 3 speeds.

bonjibon - Tenga Iroha Mini Sora MikanTenga Iroha Mini Sora Mikan

This little palm-sized vibe may only be one speed, but you can feel many different vibration patterns and intensities based on which zone of the toy you use. This waterproof vibe is great for not only discovering what kind of vibrations you like but also where you like vibrations on your body in general.

bonjibon - gaia biodegradable vibratorGaia Biodegradable Vibrator

Hip-hop-hurray for the world’s first biodegradable vibrator! The design of this vibe is a first-timers dream with gradual multiple speeds, a longer body to play with both external (clit, balls, nipples…etc) and internal pleasure points and is super price-friendly at $18CAD!

bonjibon - Mood Exciter Stroker MasturbatorMood Exciter Stroker Masturbator

Sex toys aren’t just for people with vaginas. For those with penis’ looking to up their solo or partnered hand-job situation, this stroker is a great sensory upgrade. Made with a patented ULTRASKYN material, this super-squishy stoker has alternating pleasure bumps on its inside for a whole new textural journey. We recommend pairing this toy with a water-based lube to keep everything smooth and slippery.

bonjibon - fin by dameFin by Dame

Fin is a truly perfect finger vibe. It’s a great option for those who are already really comfortable using their hands and fingers to get them where they need to be and want to enhance that with some good vibrations. This super quiet finger vibe has an optional finger strap, is fully waterproof, USB rechargeable and can be used in a multitude of creative ways.

bonjibon - Firefly Pleasure Plugs Trainer KitFirefly Pleasure Plugs Trainer Kit

Want to try out anal play but don’t know the best toy or method to start with? This is the training set for you! Made from super flexible TPE elastomer, this training kit starts with a super small plug that is sized specifically for anal newbies and gradually sizes up with two more plugs that will help you to become accustomed to the feel of something larger in your anus. Each plug has a flared base so it’s perfect for prolonged use and can be used on its own, with a vibe on another pleasure point on your body or while having sex with a partner to heighten the pleasure.

bonjibon - They-Ology Intimate MassagerThey-Ology Intimate Massager

A chic take on the classic Magic Wand, the Inspire Vibrating Ultimate Wand Vibe is a great clit-focused vibrator. If you know you’re after something with more of a punch, this is your new best friend. With ten vibration patterns, this vibe is a force to be reckoned with. 50% smaller than the original Magic Wand, waterproof and rechargeable, this is a must for stronger vibration seekers. 

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