10 Best Sex Toys for Complete Beginners

So you've heard all of the buzz; you've seen ads and articles saying sex toys can change your life. You've even noticed them popping up all over the place - Chapters!? Who knew. But when you decided to buy one, you were overwhelmed with all of the options. Do you want vibrations, slaps, sucks, pulses, heat, cool, or rumbles!? Soft silicone? Metal? Big? Small? 

*Superhero music* Never fear, Bonjibon is here with a NEW and IMPROVED list of the best sex toys for newbies! 

1.ROMP Riot Bullet

Size isn't everything. This compact bullet packs a powerful punch with 6 intense vibration speeds and 4 unique patterns to tease, tingle, and transport you to a world of blissful temptation.   

This little bullet vibe is versatile and ready to explore your body with you. Tease and tickle sensitive areas like your nipples or enhance your massage routine with deep rumbles for a sensual, seductive stimulation of the senses. Its small size means you can take it with you for waves of fun. on-the-go.

The Riot is made from soft body-safe silicone and is splashproof, so wipe it with some toy cleaner and a damp cloth to keep it clean before and after every use.

• 6 Vibration Speeds + 4 Vibration Patterns
• Splashproof
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• USB Rechargeable

Shop ROMP Riot Bullet here.

2. Mini Banana Vibe

This vibe is bananas. B-A-N-A-N-A-S.

This little fruit features 10 vibration modes that include multiple speeds and wild patterns, all delivered to your G-spot or P-spot through the gently curved body. However, what’s even more appealing is the peel itself! Those three triangular “peel pieces” also deliver vibrations to the clitoris. Rotate the toy to find the best position for internal and external stimulation. From steady deep rumbles to high frequency pulses, this toy has it all. The soft, smooth silicone material feels luxurious and delicate against your skin and is super easy to clean.

The Mini Banana Vibrator is waterproof too, so you can bring it into the shower or bath for a wet and wild time. Use a water-based lubricant with this toy for the most comfortable experience, and remember to clean it with a toy cleaner before and after every use. Quickly charge this vibrator with the included USB cord and always have your banana ready to satisfy your naughtiest appetite.

• 10 Vibration Speeds + Patterns
  
• USB Rechargeable
• Internal + External Use
• Waterproof
• Medical Grade Silicone

Shop Mini Banana Vibe here.

3. Confetti Pride Anal Trainer Set

Fun and playful, the Confetti Pride Anal Trainer Set is a perfect set for booty play newbies and pros.

This set includes 3 velvet-touch silicone butt plugs in gradually increasing sizes for introducing anal play, or preparing for penetration with a partner’s body or larger toys. The 4, 5, and 6 inch plugs are shaped with a slim tip for easy insertion and widen to create the ideal feeling of fullness at each stage. A unique curved base design follows the contours of the body for safety and comfort during extended backdoor play.

• Set of 3
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Training Set

Shop Confetti Pride Anal Trainer Set here.

4. Fin by Dame

Fin is a small, versatile vibrator worn between the fingers to add stimulating vibration to touch. Fin’s optional tether, dual sensations, and three speeds allow you to choose your own adventure! Seamless to wear and easy to remove, Fin is great for foreplay, sex, or solo use.

• 5 Vibration Patterns
• 5 Vibration Speeds
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• USB Rechargeable
• Waterproof
• Available in 2 colours

Shop Fin by Dame here.

5. Fuze Star

Star is simple but versatile. The elegantly smooth shaft makes Star an ideal introductory toy, especially for pegging. The gently concave base sits comfortably in a harness and is literally the strongest suction cup you will ever find. You will be amazed how well it holds the toy in place on any flat, smooth surface. 

• 6" Length
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Suction Base
• Harness-compatible
• Designed in Canada, Made in the USA

Shop Fuze Star here.

6. Tenga Puffy Stroker

Sink into a world of soft, enveloping pleasure with the TENGA Puffy.

This ultimate luxury provides ultra-soft, silky-smooth tactile sensations with its spongy material and silicone cover. Enjoy the supple and smooth texture with the added control of squeezing the soft case to adjust pressure. The anti-dust coating keeps the product clean and the waterproof structure allows for easy cleaning and repeated use. Simply remove the top cover and insertion point cap for convenient cleaning and drying. Experience luxurious pleasure that's soft to the touch, every time with the TENGA Puffy.

• Squishy Exterior
  
• Reusable

Shop Tenga Puffy Stroker here.

7. Tenga Iroha Yuki

Calling all grinding lovers!

Get ready to delight in the playful vibrations and semi-insertable tip of YUKI, shaped like a charming snowman with a squishy body. Made from a supple, smooth material, this vibrator is perfect for a massage-like experience. Experience the gentle softness and refined smoothness of this delightful brand, designed to treat your body to the luxurious sensations it craves. 

• 3 Vibration Speeds
  
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Water-resistant
• USB Rechargeable

Shop Tenga Iroha Yuki here.

 8. Blue Lagoon Silicone Dildo

Immerse yourself with island vibes as you enjoy a whole new experience of pleasure with the Blue Lagoon Silicone Dildo. 100% silicone as well as phthalate and latex-free, making it super easy to clean. Stick it to any surface by the strong suction base or attach to almost any harness with ease. 

• 5.5" Length
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• Suction-Base
• Harness-Compatible

Shop Blue Lagoon Silicone Dildo here.

9. Starsi Starfish Vibrator

Meet Starsi, the gender-inclusive vibrator for everyone.

With its award-winning design, Starsi offers a wide range of uses to accommodate diverse body types. Starsi’s arched back provides wide, smooth sensations. If you prefer pinpoint sensation, each tentacle tip vibrates at a unique intensity, allowing you to discover the perfect vibration for your body. For hands-free stimulation, you can place the toy on a pillow and grind against it—great for those with hand disabilities. Starsi is particularly loved by transgender and non-binary folx or those with genital dysphoria, as it can cover the entire genital region, offering a euphoric experience that aids in reimagining the body.

Starsi works with you to find what you love.

• 5 Vibration Patterns
• 5 Vibration Speeds
• 100% Body-Safe Silicone
• USB Rechargeable
• Waterproof

Shop Starsi Starfish Vibrator here.

10. Silicone Loop Cock Ring

The Stay Hard Silicone Loop Cock Ring is soft, smooth, and fully adjustable. It features a lasso-style locking slide. Push the button on the slide to pull your ring open. Fit your loop to the base of your cock or behind your balls. Push the button and tightened the loop to create the tight yet comfortable fit that suites your desires. Your Stay Hard Loop Cock Ring will not pull skin or body hair. Easy to wash with soap and water.

• Adjustable
  
• Sliding Locking Bead
• Body-Safe Silicone
• Great for those looking to play with different sensations
• Will match body temperature

Shop Silicone Loop Cock Ring here.

Remember, nothing is one size fits all - especially sex toys. Pleasure items represent an opportunity to increase pleasure, and learn about what you like. If you have any questions or concerns, reach out to us at support@bonjibon.com. We'd love to help out!