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The Art of the Blowjob

The Art of the Blowjob

Mastering the art of the blowjob can be a hard task but, with help and a little bit of practice, it can be fun and enjoyable for everyone involved.  Whether you are a newbie or an old pro looking for new tips this ultimate guide will help you give the best blow job as well connect with your partner in new ways. Before you can give an amazing blowjob its a few key ingredients you need to keep in mind.

Enthusiasm

The most important thing to remember when it comes to performing blowjobs is to actually want to perform the blowjob! Enthusiasm is the key to giving great head. Conveying your genuine enthusiasm is the biggest turn-on. No one wants sex of any kind from a person who makes it seem like a chore.

Rhythm

The next key ingredient to giving a great blowjob is rhythm. Find your partner’s rhythm. Pay attention to their stroke when masturbating or when you’re having sex. When they’re about to climax, do they go faster like a rabbit or keep a steady tempo? Imitate it when performing fellatio.

Angles

Angles is another key ingredient, they provide dynamic sensations. There are several different textures at your disposal in your mouth. The roughness of your tongue, the ridgy roof of your mouth, the smoothness of the insides of your cheeks. Use all of these textures to create dynamic pleasure for your partner. The last ingredient is wetness! THE WETTER THE BETTER! When giving great head, there’s no such thing as too much spit!. Saliva serves as a natural lubricant and reduces friction which takes away from pleasure when performing fellatio.

Know the anatomy

A big key to great head is knowing penis anatomy, knowing the hot spots will help save you time and take out a lot of the guesswork. The meatus, the peehole is an erogenous zone often overlooked. Penis owners tend to stimulates their meatus by rubbing the head of the penis on the labia before penetration.  Kissing, licking, pressing, or tickling this spot can drive the receiver wild. The scrotum is the sac that holds the balls. It has several nerve endings that make it sensitive to touch. Sucking, licking, tugging, and massaging can be extremely pleasurable. The perineum is the spot between the anus and scrotum. It’s full of perineal nerves, gentle pressing, rubbing (with lube), and tickling are great ways to engage the perineum. The frenulum is the v-spot area on the underside of the penis where the glands of the penis meet the shaft. This is the most sensitive area on the penis. Kissing, licking and rubbing this area is a win.

Technique

Now for technique. Starting out with a light handjob is a great way to warm things up. Using your hands helps to make the experience more pleasurable. Rub some lube on your hands and let your hands do the talking. Then use your mouth and start at the testicles, lick slowly up the bottom of the shaft to the tip of the head. Then flick your tongue in circles, concentrating on the frenulum and teasing the tip of the penis. Don’t be afraid to use your tongue for different types of licks and kisses. Create gentle suction on the shaft while moving in an up and down motion. This will have your partner be singing your praises all night long.

About the writer

Ashley Cobb

Ashley Cobb is an sexfluencer and pleasure educator whose goal is to help women create intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex lives. She teaches women how to feel comfortable discussing their desires and release all the negative BS that holds them back from experiencing the best sex of their life. Find out more about her services at www.sexwithashley.com

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